29 September 2014

Adventures in House Hunting, Part 1

I was up early this morning (thank you very much, Mila) and couldn't go back to sleep.  It was one of those mornings where my brain would not shut off.  I think most of the stuff floating around in my head has to do with our upcoming move on FRIDAY!  We'll be in our new house shortly and we have a lot to do before then.

We have now been living in temporary housing for just over a month and it's definitely time to get out of here.  I'm ready to have our stuff (especially toys for the kiddos) and get into a day-to-day routine.  Once we get our things, I'll be busy getting all the boxes unpacked and make the new house our home.  We already have guests planned for the end of October, so I'm going to be on hostess mode.

But, let's back up a bit, shall we?

Prior to moving to Spain, we knew that the house hunting process would be a little slower than Japan (we had a house and cars within two weeks of moving there).  So, in order to expedite the process as much as possible, we tried to research the housing as best we could.  We knew that given the opportunity, we wanted to live out in town instead of on base in order to really experience the Spanish life.  We read as many blogs and housing websites that we could find and wrote to people who were currently living in the Rota area.  Then, we made our list of priorities and wants:
  •  We wanted to live in Puerto de Santa Maria.  It's the town on the other side of the base that is much bigger than Rota and has a lot of family-friendly neighborhoods.  There are a lot of individual homes with yards, pools, quiet streets, etc.  A lot of American families live in Puerto since it's very family friendly.
  •  We preferred a one-story home.
  • We did NOT want a pool.  Young kids and two anti-water dogs are enough of a reason to avoid a pool.
  • We wanted a yard.
  • We wanted a community feel, possibly an easy walk to the beach or shops. 
  • We wanted enough bedrooms to host family and friends, possibly for long term stays.
  • We needed to keep our rent within our housing allowance (basically, we didn't want to pay extra than what the military gives us for housing).
After our first couple of days here, Noa attended a housing brief and set up an appointment with the base housing office.  They are the office we go through when renting out in town.  We explained our list of wants/needs and they generated a list of available properties.  I noticed that many of the properties listed had pools, second (or third) stories, but I was trying to be open to the possibilities. 

The next step was to look at the properties.  We'd schedule several hours to look at properties with either a representative from the housing office or an independent housing realtor.  These visits were helpful because we were able to see a wide range of properties and see what living out and town really entails.  The houses are definitely not the same as in the states.

First of all, pools are really common here.  Especially in Puerto.  Most, but not all, houses have them.




The pools were actually very nice.  Most were not very big and all of them could have fences put around them for safety (this is not mandatory in Spain, but landlords will install them for Americans).  It's pretty warm here, so the idea of a pool is enticing, but I know that I would be worried sick if the girls were out playing in the yard and I wasn't right there with them.  So, we axed all the homes with pools.

It's interesting to note that every house is walled off from the street and the neighboring homes.  We were hoping to get a fenced yard for the kids and dogs, but there's no need to worry about that since it's commonplace to have a walled property.  It does make it kind of funny to drive through the neighborhoods because you can only really see the second floor of the homes and sometimes just the roof from the street!



Every house we looked at had tile floors.  There is no wall-to-wall carpeting anywhere.  Part of the reason for this is so houses stay cool in the summer when the temps are high (and many homes do not have A/C).  For us, that just means we'll need more area rugs because again, small children, fragile dog legs, and noise reduction. 



 

 The houses are built with separate spaces, so that each room is easily closed off.  In America, it seems like open-concept homes are all the rage, but here, they have the houses really divided up.  I think they do that to be more energy efficient since utilities are really expensive over here.  I would jokingly think to myself, "what's behind door number 2?"  There are lots of doors.





Energy efficiency is an important factor to consider with these homes and so is comfort.  Many of the homes, especially the older ones were not built to be used year round.  This area of Spain is a vacation area, so most homeowners use their Rota/Puerto house as a second/summer home.  These homes have single pane windows, tile floors, thin wall, etc.  They are created to stay cool.  The problem is that in the damp winter months, the temperatures can go down to the 40s and the homes can feel colder inside than it is outside!!  So, we had to look at how the home was constructed - if it had upgrades or was built more recently - and how A/C and/or heat was produced.  We have also been told that if we live "like Americans," it's going to cost us.  So that means we'll have to bundle up a bit more in the winters and use the sun and wind to our advantage.  Central air conditioning/heat is rare, but we did see a few newer homes with it.  Most had radiators, space heaters, fans, or wall units like this (we also had these in Japan):

Oh, and fireplaces are common too!  Now that I think about it, I think every house we looked at had a fireplace.  One had a wood stove, but most were just regular fireplaces and all were functional if we chose to use it.



A main feature on the exterior of almost every house are gypsy bars on doors and windows.  That sounds like a negative term, but apparently that's what they are called.  This area of Spain is pretty safe, but petty crime still exists, so gypsy bars are the way to protect a home from theft.  They are usually opened by a key from the inside.  Not the most glamorous looking things, but again, they are very, very common.




Speaking of windows, the other common feature on every house (both on and off base) are persianas, which are outer rolling blinds.  These are used to keep the rooms cool and dark, especially in the summer.



Moving inside…the kitchens: most were pretty small and that's where the majority of houses had the washing machine located.



The Spanish don't typically use clothes dryers, although we saw a couple of houses that had them.  Typically, they have an area off the kitchen where they hang their clothes to dry.  We'll be borrowing a dryer from the base so that we can fluff our clothes, but I'm hoping to embrace this line drying for much of our laundry.  Again, the reason for the lack of dryers is energy efficiency.



We were surprised to find that the bedrooms had closets.  I had heard that many European bedrooms didn't have these and that we'd most likely have to furnish a wardrobe.  Not the case here.  The closets are actually really nice.  Most have dividers and/or shelves inside in addition to a hanging bar.



Bathrooms: most of them have bidets!  When Ruby first saw them, she exclaimed, "two potties!"  Oh, boy, this is gonna take some explaining….



Other interesting finds were that the ovens are tiny!  We won't be roasting a large Thanksgiving turkey this year.  I'm thinking cornish hens might be doable.  Hopefully my cookie sheets will fit in there.  Oh, and we'll have to get a conversion chart because the heat is measured in Celcius, of course.

Outdoor patios are available on every home and are very much a part of the lifestyle here.  Many families will use the outdoor space for evening dining. We plan on doing just that!



There are plenty of gardens here and even the homes that had smaller yards or no yard had pots with plants and flowers growing.  It seems like plants are pretty important to the Spanish, as they seem to always look healthy and lush.  A lot of the homes included a gardener in the rental agreement.





We ended up looking at over 25 homes in Puerto!  We also looked at 1 home in Rota in order to give Rota a chance.  So, what did we end up with?


Guess you'll have to stay tuned to find out. But, just for a teaser, I did include one picture from our future home in this post.


I'm mean.  I know.


26 September 2014

Mila: 6 Months

And just like that, Mila turned half-a-year old while we adjusted to our new home:

 
Age: 6 months
Weight: 14.5 pounds
Length: 26.38 inches
Sleep: still not sleeping through the night (or in a crib), mostly sleeping in OUR bed, naps during the day anywhere from 20 minutes (typical) to 1.5 hours
Eating: formula (about 70% of the time) and breastfed (30%)
Appearance: brownish-gray eyes, blondish hair, wearing 3 - 6 month clothes, two bottom teeth
Can: roll front to back and back to front, grab objects and put in her mouth, beginning to use "real" sounds (ba, ga, ma, etc), "crawling" (or scooting) backwards, reacts to other people, usually with a smile, likes dog kisses


Generally speaking, Mila is a very happy baby now.  Unless she's hungry or tired, she is SMILEY!  This is a pretty significant change from how she was as a newborn, since I felt like she was kinda agitated (yes, I realize that newborns don't have a huge range of emotions, but she wasn't overly happy like she can be now).  She will coo, talk, and purr happily at me throughout the day.  It is so sweet!  She still likes to be social and around people, not just left in the bouncer or on a play mat, but given an audience, she will ham it up (she'll also smile if I whip out my phone to take a picture!).


In some ways, Mila reminds me of Ruby.  She likes soft things, like stuffed animals.  Ruby was and still is into her dolls and stuffed animals.  She'll even take Mila's animals and play with them, claiming them as her own (we're working on that).  Mila will chew on them, throw them around, and generally play with them as best she can for only being 6 months old. 


In other ways, she is very much her own person.  She is a little bigger than Ruby was at this age and she's hitting milestones differently.  For example, she got her first TWO teeth at four months old.  She's already scooting backwards and often gets frustrated because she's scooted off the blanket and can't figure out how to get back on it!  She is not sitting yet, but is getting closer.  At six month old, Ruby was just getting one tooth and sitting up, but not close to being mobile.  This little one is going to keep me on my toes!


Mila is definitely getting closer to crawling!  She seems like a strong one and can hold herself up in this position for awhile.


Oh, and the drool!!  She is such a drool monster!  Noa and I have a ready supply of bibs and burp clothes at the ready since she drools a lot!  You'd think another tooth would pop out, but nope, just lots of drool.


She's been riding in the "big girl" stroller a lot more.  Partly because we don't have our nicer, bigger stroller here yet, so we put her in the small, travel one.  She does okay in it, although normally I would wait until she hit a higher weight/length since the straps aren't very snug on her.

Oh, and yes, Ruby is kinda crazy in this pic.  She was very excited to have pizza that night.


Mila tolerates her sister's love and affection.  Ruby really adores Mila and wakes up every morning saying "Mmmmmeeeeennnnaaa" (she can't pronounce the letter "L" yet), while running up to her.  She'll then proceed to try to hug her or dance in front of her to make Mila laugh.  We have to watch Ruby to make sure she isn't too rough with Mila since she thinks Mila can do all the things she can.  Still, she loves having a sister and will often involve her in play, such as putting "jewelry" or accessories on her.



So proud!  She's holding her own bottle.  Okay, truth be told, she dropped it soon after I took this pic, but she is able to hold it part of the time.  She will pretty much grab anything she can and stick it in her mouth.  Nothing is safe anymore.


Finally, Mila is so tolerant with the dogs, especially Gunnar, who is my constant shadow.  Both he and Mila are with me most of the day and he is always trying to lay down next to her or lick her hands or mouth (I try to stop this).  She doesn't seem bothered by him and he doesn't seem too jealous of her. Not yet, at least.


Happy 6 months, Mila!

25 September 2014

First Week/Arcos de la Frontera

Looking back, our first week felt a bit like a whirlwind, but compared to our move to Oki, it also seems slow.  Our jet lag kicked in big time and we found ourselves sleepy around 4:00 in the afternoon and wide awake at 3:30 in the morning.  It was definitely challenging with the kiddos.


Bryan was an awesome sponsor.  Not only did he get us all set up in our temporary housing, but he took us all around Rota.  Once we had a free day, we set off to check out Rota on foot.  The first stop: ice cream, of course!


 I took a few quick shots around the city.  Truthfully, I was overwhelmed by trying to take it all in, so there's no real order to these; just random scenes from our new city.




This photo (below) is a little deceiving as to what Rota looks like.  Yes, there are a lot of scooters/mopeds/motorcycles here, but it's definitely less crowded now.  When we walked this street, it was still during the busy tourist season.  These days, you only see parking this crowded around the time school lets out.


We had our first official Spanish tapas at one of the small restaurants (often called "bars" even though they are more like a restaurant) on the beach.  The Spanish set up these temporary bars that are only open during the summer right on the beach.  I also got to enjoy my first glass of Spanish sangria here…yum!  Each place makes it differently, so it's fun to try it out wherever you go.  Poor Ruby is not in this photo because she's sound asleep in the stroller.  She slept through the whole meal!  Jet lag is tough!


We got to also relax at Bryan's apartment (and use his wi-fi!).  He has an amazing view of Rota's beautiful beach!  Oh, and you can see the bar down there that we ate at (white and brown roof).


We also got a little sightseeing in.  Bryan took us to visit Arcos de la Frontera, which is the closest "pueblo blanco" or "white village" to Rota (only about 45 minutes away).  He also invited another family, the Pierce family (who also have two young girls), to join us.

Arcos is pretty amazing because it's built on a cliff, so it has some amazing views. 




It was quite a hike to get to see the views and the streets here are reeeaaalllyyyy narrow.  I am still amazed that cars fit down some of these streets!  I'm not planning on trying it with our CR-V once it arrives.



See those red tables (below)?  We ate lunch there and the cars would drive right next to the table.  It. Was. Crazy.


You can see a car in the background of this photo.  Yes, that car is driving by.


This was one of our tapas: bread with slices of goat cheese and topped with different jellies and olive oil.  It was pretty good.


Santa Maria Church:


Ruby and her new pal, Keira, plan out our walk.


We only got a glimpse of Arcos, but this will probably be a frequent place we'll go to with visitors.  I'm excited to check out the shops and maybe get to see the inside of some of the churches.