30 March 2012

Adventures in Cloth Diapering, Part 2

You may remember my post about choosing to go with cloth diapers instead of  using disposables.  We've stuck with it since then and overall I'm very pleased.  Noa seems to be happy about the process and our regular babysitter is on board too, so we've been pretty successful about sticking with it.

I thought I'd write a post about my experience so far, my thoughts on each brand of diaper, and my washing routine.

I purchased 4 different brands of pocket diapers in order to maximize the benefits of each brand.  Here are my overall thoughts on the brands I purchased:


Bum Genius 4.0 Pocket Diaper
Overall, this is my favorite diaper.  The Bum Genius 4.0 pocket diapers have great overall coverage and will grow with Ruby until the potty training stage.  The only downside I've found with these are that they are the bulkiest, which I think looks adorable on her, but can make her clothing a little tight.  Also, the color selection is just okay.  I wish there were some primary options available (most are pastels).



Fuzzibuns Fitted Pockets



These are the slimest fitting diapers and are super soft, both on the diaper pocket and the inside liner. Fuzzibunz Fitted Diapers, however, seem to have the worst fit of all my diapers since Ruby has skinny little legs.  I have trouble getting the diaper to get a close fit around her slim thighs.  I'll also have to purchase more when she's bigger since these are sized based on weight.



Thirsties Duo Diapers


Thirsties Diapers are also sized, so eventually I'll have to stock up on more.  I love the leg gussets and adorable patterns (I have one pictured and another one with owls) on these.  But even more so, I love how these can be tossed right in the wash without removing the liner since there are pocket openings in the front and the back of the diaper.  I find that the Thirsties can be difficult to size correctly since they fit very differently than the other diapers (I think of them as the lowrider diapers).  Frankly, the biggest drawback with these are the doubled inserts.  They absorb wonderfully, but they take forever to dry!



Oh Katy One Size Pocket Diapers


I only have two Oh Katy Diapers.  I bought these later than the others since I was having leaking issues and heard that these are good for babies with skinny legs.  These are super soft and do have a nice fit on Ruby.  The pocket opening is in the front, which means that when I am stuffing the inserts back in, I usually end up unsnapping my settings.  So, I have to re-snap them back, which just adds another step.  Not a huge deal, but it's kinda annoying.  Oh Katy Diapers have some great color choices and wash really well.


Other Observations
  • Cloth diapers are super cute on babies.  Enough said.
  • These really bulk up the diaper bag.  If I had known how much space they were going to take up, I might have put more thought into diaper bag options. 
  • I don't mind the extra laundry (more on that in a minute), but if you HATE laundry, cloth diapers are not for you.  There's no getting around having to toss them in the wash.
  • Starting cloth diapering was really intimidating since there are so many options.  Regardless of the cloth diapers chosen, it's still a pretty easy diapering system.
  • I read that babies who are cloth diapered don't get diaper rashes, but we have experienced some irritation.  Thankfully it's never been that bad and I use Grovia's Magic Stick, which seems to clear it up by the next diaper change.  I love how it's in a stick and I don't have to mess with a cream.
  • Also, I remember reading that cloth diapered babies don't have blowouts.  We definitely have had leaks, but I also attribute that to the fact that Ruby has really skinny legs.  Trying to get some of the bulkier diapers to fit on her nice and snug can be a challenge at times.  However, she also leaked when we've used disposables, so it's not like it's a major change from that.


Okay, so here is how I live the "cloth diaper lifestyle" (it's not that crazy...really!):
Dirty diapers go into a wet bag (a cloth bag with a waterproof liner and zipper) or my diaper pail.  It's actually just a lidded bucket from Ikea with a liner in it.  


I don't have to rinse the diapers, since Ruby is breastfed.  Once she starts solids, I'll have to knock the solids into the toilet and will most likely invest in a diaper sprayer, but for now the diapers can get washed as is.
Every 2 - 3 days I throw in a load of diapers into the washing machine.  I pull out the inserts and drop both the insert and the pocket diaper straight into the washing machine.  The wet bag goes in as well.


I do have to use a special detergent, since most regular detergents will leave residues and oils on cloth diapers (this will cause them to not be as absorbent or could irritate baby).  It's called Country Save and it's not super expensive and cleans the diapers well.  Plus, since I have an HE machine, I really don't need to use a lot.  Occasionally I'll toss in some OxyClean too.


The diapers go through a pre-rinse cycle and then a hot cycle with a second rinse.
Then I put all the inserts and wet bags in the dryer.  The actual diapers get put on a drying rack.  If there are any stains that didn't come out, I simply let them sit in the sun for a couple of hours and POW! - stains are gone.  It's pretty sweet.




Oh, and I forgot to mention.  I also use cloth wipes.  My mother-in-law made them for me when she was visiting in January.  She simply cut up some old receiving blankets and sewed the edges.  Then I made a wipes solution from a recipe I found online.  This system works great and the wipes can also be washed with the diapers.



After the diapers are dry, I stuff all the inserts into the diapers, fold the cloth wipes, and put everything away.  I split the stash and put half in her bedroom and other other half in the living room.  Here is the set-up in the nursery.


So that's it!  And oh, I still use the occasional disposable, like when we traveled on an airplane.  But so far, I keep it cloth about 95% of the time.


23 March 2012

4 Months!

Look who turned 4 months old last week!


Age: 4 months
Weight: 10 lbs, 6 oz
Length: 25 inches
Sleep: typically wakes every 2 - 3 hours (still!), is co-sleeping most of the night but will sleep in her own bed after much coaxing (rocking, shushing, etc), hope to begin sleep training this month
Eating: exclusively breastfed, will accept a bottle
Appearance: blue eyes, light brown hair (with a bald strip on the back of her head), skinny arms/legs with long fingers/toes, dimples, wearing 3-month size clothes, can now wear headbands

Our little peanut continues to bring us much joy every day.  This past month Ruby has learned the joys of rolling over, both back to belly and belly to back.  When she does roll over, it's pretty cute because she startles herself with this newfound skill.  Her face gives this expression as if to say, "hey, how did I get like this?"  She still adores her hands, but is beginning to show an interest in other toys (mostly the ones she can stick in her mouth).  She'll also reach up to get the toys that are hanging from her play mat.  Ruby can be very chatty and babble about, but has yet to give us a laugh or a giggle.  We're going to brush up on our knock-knock jokes in the Hammer house in order to get those belly laughs going.  Ruby battled yet another cold this month, but was a trooper since she had to travel from Colorado back to Washington while feeling crummy.

Here are some photos from the past month:

Ruby is usually content hanging out in the bouncer while I get ready for work.  I love her striped BabyLegs and little bear slippers!


Still loving those hands!


Hanging out with mom in Colorado (she wasn't super smiley since this is when she started coming down with that yucky cold).


Uh, Ruby?  You've got something on your face....


Gunnar loves her though. At least, he loves to lick her!


We celebrated St. Patrick's Day with friends.  Thanks to Aunt Franchi, Ruby was sporting a fun, festive onesie!


I love her beautiful blue eyes in the next set of photos.  




This is when she started feeling better from her cold.  She can be such a smiley girl!


Today she got her 4-month shots and she was a superstar.  I'm so proud of her!

21 March 2012

Ruby's Top 10 Baby Items

Ruby just turned 4 months (post about that coming soon!) and with many of my friends being new moms or soon-to-be moms, I thought I'd dedicate a post to some of my favorite baby items that have kept me sane over these last few months.  Know that these are my favorite items that worked for Ruby.  Every baby is different and may not respond the same way to all of these items, but I have a feeling that most of my new mom friends will agree that most of these things are awesome.  Also, this list is not exhaustive....it's just some of my favs....not necessarily the only baby items I'd recommend.

1 - Swaddling Blankets and Wraps
Ruby is a baby that likes to be swaddled.  When we brought her home from the hospital, we kept using her hospital blanket as a swaddler until she got too long for it.  Since then, we've moved on to using Aden and Anais (pronounced a-nay) blankets, SwaddleMe wraps, and the Miracle Blanket.  We actually double swaddle her since her hands always seem to creep out if she just has one layer on.


2 - The Dream Blanket
Speaking of blankets, this blanket, also by Aden and Anais, is awesome.  It's got a hefty price tag, but is well worth the money since we use it for almost everything.  Something about the thickness, yet breathability of the fabric just makes it the perfect baby blanket for tummy time, lining the pack and play, or simply wrapping up Ruby for a nap.  The only thing I don't like about this blanket are the pattern choices.  They are okay, but I don't love them.  I ended up choosing the giraffe one and even though I don't love the pattern, we use it every day.



3 - Nose Frida, aka the Snot Sucker
Okay, call me gross, but I love this thing.  I too, once thought this was super disgusting, but then I had a baby and said baby got sick.  And when said baby's nose is all plugged up with gook, a mama has to do what a mama's got to do.  Enter the NoseFrida.  This contraption uses the sucking power of mom's mouth to get out all that gooky gunk that's making it hard for baby to breathe and feed.  Thankfully, it was created with a reservoir and filter so that there's no chance of that lovely snot getting into mama's mouth. 
4 - Soothies
When I was pregnant, I registered for all the cute little Nuks and MAMs, but Ruby ended up loving the plain and simple Soothie pacifiers.  I'd still recommend trying different pacifiers to new moms, but Ruby clearly showed a preference  Whenever we'd stick a Nuk into her mouth, she'd promptly spit it out.  When I realized that she prefers the Soothies, I promptly went out and bought like 20...there was no way I was going to be caught without one when the need arose.


5 - The Moby Wrap
Some people will probably argue this one with me, saying the Moby Wrap is too cumbersome or difficult to tie.  I found that with a little practice, it has been a Godsend. Shopping has become bearable because Ruby likes to be in the Moby, looking at everything and everyone or snoozing on my chest.  I get to have both hands free and don't have an infant car seat taking up the shopping cart.  It's a win-win in my book.  Yes,  the Moby wrap did take a little getting used to, but now both Noa and I use it regularly with her.  I even started wearing her facing out, which she seems to enjoy.  Eventually she'll get too heavy for the Moby (and I'll upgrade to an Ergo carrier), but for now, I'm sticking with this classic.


6 - Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature Bibs
Around two and a half months, Ruby started drooling.  Drooling bad.  Her clothes were taking a beating and I was having to change her just as soon as I had gotten her dressed.  Enter my salvation: the Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature bibs.  These bibs are not just ordinary ol'baby bibs.  These are the Cadillac of bibs.  They are made of an absorbent terrycloth material that easily sops up messes, but the magic is around the neck.  TT bibs have extra cushioning right at the neckline, so that drool goes right to the bib, not underneath to baby's clothing.  These are another item I stocked up on.  They may not be the cutest bibs on the market, but they sure are useful!


7 - The Swing
I'll admit it now.  I did not want a baby swing.  As soon as someone would walk into my home, I knew that a huge swing would scream "BABY!" and take over my living room right then and there.  But I didn't realize how valuable a swing can be until Ruby arrived and immediately started sleeping in it from day one.  And oh, how glorious sleep can be!  Recently, she's been battling a cold and I moved the swing back into the living room and presto!  She was lulled to sleep by the soft tunes and rocking motion.  I am indebted to the friend who gave us our sanity-saving swing.  In fact, right now as I write this, Ruby is hanging out in the swing, sucking on her Soothie pacifier and starting to drift off into la-la-land.


This was the first toy that Ruby actively reached for.  She's still not hugely into toys, mostly her hands, but occasionally she will grab for this and can easily hold it.  I love the colors and the fact that it can be refrigerated to make a soothing teether.


9 - Lifefactory Glass Bottles
I decided to go the glass route for our bottles and registered for two brands: Evenflo and Lifefactory.  The Lifefactory bottle won out easily.  Not only are they cute, but their protective sleeves (that comes with the bottle - Evenflo's are separate) seem to have better coverage of the glass.  Also, the ounce markings are on the sleeve, which makes it much easier to read (Evenflo's are only on the glass).  

Oh, and yes, I've dropped one of these and it didn't even crack!

10 - Baby Got Colic
This is a 99 cent download from iTunes that I swear by.  Noa calls it "Baby Nine Inch Nails" music since it sounds a little crazy, like some techno train gone wild, but "Baby Got Colic" by Ultimate Baby Music works magic at lulling Ruby to sleep.  And as I've mentioned earlier, sleep is a major goal around here.  I have it on my iPhone and put it on repeat and Ruby is calmed by it.  It seems to work better than any other noise machine, although we use everything we have to keep the background noise going.


I have some other wonderful products, like my awesome breast pump* (Medela Pump In Style) and our fabulous cloth diapers (will have a whole post dedicated to those), but I wanted to limit the list to ten items that really stood out. Many, many thanks to my mom friends who recommended or purchased these items for me.  Your recommendations were spot on!

 Feel free to add your own favorites in the comments.  New moms are reading!





* Thanks to KS for giving this to me.  It rocks.  Seriously.

18 March 2012

A Quick Colorado Trip

Here are some of the photos from our recent trip to Colorado.  Thanks to Jess for sharing these with me!


Little "Bubba" actually gave me a kick when this pic was taken!  
Oh, and doesn't Jess look fabulous?  She makes me miss being pregnant.


Love this one!


All three girls: me, Ruby, and Jess.  Ruby was not into posing for photos at the time, but we couldn't resist.  Besides, we were all wearing stripes....a photo session just had to happen.


Later, all the Hampostles, complete with baby and baby-to-be:


This was just the four of us on the night of Jess' birthday.  We had a scrumptious meal at Chimney Park restaurant.  It was the first time we've had a couples' date without Ruby.  Although we love the little peanut dearly, it was fun to have a grownups-only dinner event.  At Chimney Park, I tried foie gras for the first time (my take: delicious if you imagine it is a butter; disturbing if you think of it a meat) and ordered the bison steak for my entree.  Delish!


For another birthday treat, the girls had some time downtown for facials and shopping....


...while the boys got some golf time in.


During our visit, the weather was absolutely gorgeous - sunny and 70s.  It was a nice change of pace from the 40-degree, rainy weather of the pacific northwest.  The HamFam needed some sun!


While Jess and I were walking in the glorious sunshine, I noticed how fun our shadows looked; hers with her cute, pregnant belly, and me with Ruby attached.  


Of course, no visit to Colorado is complete without spending time with my favorite rottie, Sarge!



Ruby got some gifts from her uncle Mike and aunt Jess.  She really enjoyed the "Lucy mouse" Jess gifted her by chomping on her nose.


And lastly, Jess made sure to get a pic of the Hammer family.


Thanks for the great visit, Mike and Jess.  We love you!