Kyle

This post has been a long time coming.  Mostly because there was a lot to say and because we've been busy, busy, busy!  I can't believe the last post I wrote was back at the beginning of August.  And, it's now September.  Yikes.  Let's just back up a little, shall we....back to, say mid-August.  That's when our friend Kyle came to visit us here in the great northwest.

But first, some background...sorry, it's kinda long...

When I was a sophomore in college, I came across an opportunity to work as a summer camp counselor  in Connecticut.  The camp, called Camp Harkness, was for adults and children with cerebral palsy.  During a camp session, campers would spend their days doing typical camp activities like boating, horseback riding, crafts, etc. and then also some non-traditional camp activities like shopping, dining out, visiting amusement parks, etc.  For the campers, it was simply a vacation.  For the counselors, it was a pretty rigorus job.  My duties would consist of caring for the campers' daily needs (which included personal care, transfers in and out of wheelchairs, feeding, etc), assist with camp activities, drive the large camp vans (I actually loved this part of the job for some reason), and just hanging out with some really fun, unique people.  My sister and I both signed up for the job.  Soon after, I was able to talk to my friend (yup, this was a long time ago and we were just friends back then), Noa, about it and he joined the team as well.

After our initial training as camp counselors, it wasn't long before Noa and I began officially dating.  But, since we were working almost 24/7, and since we weren't technically supposed to in a relationship while working as counselors, we had to keep things on the down low.  So, our relationship developed as we worked alongside each other and spent time with other people, especially our campers.

One of those campers was Kyle.  Kyle was in Noa's cabin and the two of them hit it off right away.  He was a fun kid, who laughed and joked easily, and had a charming southern accent.  

 Kyle's story is pretty remarkable.  He has two brothers, one of which is his twin, but he is the only one with cerebral palsy.  He is in a wheelchair and has limited physical ability, although it didn't slow him down at camp.  He participated in pretty much every activity and was always having a good time wherever he went.  Since we was so easy to get to know, we bonded with Kyle and promised to stay in touch after camp.

Kyle visited Boston and got to see Noa in med school.  Later, Kyle attended our wedding and luau-themed rehearsal dinner (oh and that's his dad in the photo with us).

Later, we visited Kyle in his hometown where he took us to some of his favorite places and we got to meet the rest of his family.  

Since then, we've kept in touch with Kyle, but not as well as we should have.  Naturally we're all friends on Facebook and we write occasional e-mails or call, but it had been sporadic at best.  We've all had busy lives, but I think Kyle has us beat on that. In addition to working as a motivational speaker, Kyle works two other jobs and is one of the founders of The Kyle Pease Foundation.  He also races with his brothers in triathalons and half marathons.  Basically, he's a busy guy.  So, we were pretty excited to hear that Kyle would be headed to the Seattle area for a weekend in August and we would get to see him.

Having Kyle come out was pretty funny because he stayed at our house and Noa took on the role primary caretaker, like at camp.  However, it's been many years since camp and Kyle's grown bigger and Noa's gotten older (ha, ha...I just called Noa old), so there was a bit of a learning curve of how to best transfer Kyle in and out of the house and car, but eventually Noa mastered the skills once again. As expected, there was lots of joking and reminiscing and of course, Kyle got to meet Ruby and the dogs.  

We didn't spend a lot of time at the house, though.  Most of the weekend was spent in Seattle, where we got to hang out with one of Kyle's former caretakers, Carla.  We also met (again, since apparently we had met him a long time ago), Kyle's friend and travel buddy, Ben, and another friend Hannah.  We all met up at Gasworks Park in Seattle, where we'd never been before.  It was awesome and a perfect day to be outside!  Check out the view:

 The reason for the name "gasworks" park are the old machines that used to convert gas from coal back in the early 1900s are still on the property.  The property is now a large park that includes a large hill that overlooks Lake Union and downtown Seattle.

Here are Noa, Kyle, Ruby, Ben and Hannah in front of Lake Union.  Did you notice how Kyle is sporting the Team Juloa shirt?  Long story short, Kyle made it to our home late on Friday night, but his bag didn't make it with him, so he got to wear some of Noa's clothes.  Way to represent, Kyle!

Ruby was a pretty happy camper getting passed around and enjoying all the new sights and people.

Carla, Kyle's former caretaker, met us at Gasworks Park but we soon parted ways with Ben and Hannah, who were going to visit some other Seattle sights while we headed to the ballpark.

After a speedy lunch (read: cramming food down our throats on the sidewalk), we headed inside Safeco Field for a tour.  Since there weren't any games scheduled, there are tours of the facility open to the public.  It was pretty interesting and we got to see quite a bit (read: it was a LONG tour), including the roof, the visiting team's locker room, the press box, owners box, and of course, the field!  Going on the field was definitely the highlight of the tour.

After our tour, we visited the Space Needle, but I don't have too many photos from that part of our day, since Ruby had about had it with sightseeing at that point.

On Sunday, the last day that Kyle was here, we rode the ferry into the city, which is always a fun way to travel.  And again, the day was gorgeous!

Our mission was to ride the new ferris wheel, located right in downtown Seattle.  Although the line was long, it was worth the wait.  The views were pretty good, although Mt. Rainier wasn't "out" which was a little disappointing, but didn't take away from the experience.

I think Ruby had the most fun trying to grab Carl's colorful necklace!

Afterwards, we headed to Pike Place Market.  You can't visit Seattle without seeing the flying fish and the original Starbucks, of course!

Sadly, we had to say good-bye shortly after this photo was taken.  We are so glad that Kyle was able to come out and we had the opportunity to meet his friends.  Kyle is an inspiration to both of us through his drive to be independent, friendly, and help others in spite of his physical obstacles.  I'm already excited for the next time we all get together and hang out again.  As all our times together have been, this too was lots of fun.

*Thanks to Carla for sharing her photo!
**For more information on Kyle's foundation, his public speaking, or other adventures, simply visit the following pages:
http://www.kylepease.org
http://kpeasey.blogspot.com
http://race.kylepease.org (check out the news stories on this one!)
http://www.facebook.com/WalkingWithKPeasey

Exterior Improvements

Today we're going to play a game on the blog.  Look at the two pictures below and see if you can spot the differences (ignore the differences in lighting as the photos were taken at different times of the day/year).

Okay, okay there are actually a lot of differences now that I look at them...here's what I have:

1. American flag in second photo, not in the first
2. The front tree has leaves in the second photo
3. There's a wreath on the door in first photo; ther's two plants at the door in second photo

But the thing I really wanted you to see were the LIGHTS!  Mike was visiting this weekend and, being the swell friend that he is, helped us change out the ugly, dated exterior brass lights for something a little more modern.  

We went from this:

To this:

I'm really happy with the result.  And since the lights were changed out, the house numbers were too.  This is what our old house numbers looked like:

Yuck.  Not a fan.  They were old and corroded.  Although they were large and easy to read from the street, the numbers and lights really dated the house.  We switched them out for more modern numbers that are still large and easy to spot.

I am so happy with the results!  This is something that has been really been bothering me about the house since we purchased it two years ago.  Now, I need to paint the door, get some new planters, and the exterior is good to go!

Thanks for your hard work, Mike and Noa!

Dirty Dash

A couple of months ago, I got an e-mail from my friend, Candace, inviting me and several other friends to participate in The Dirty Dash Tacoma - a race that involves running through mud and obstacles.  The goal of the race is to have fun and get DIRTY.  Although it was only about 3 miles, I quickly dismissed the idea since I haven't really worked out much since Ruby was born.  Then, a couple of weeks ago, Noa, Ruby, and I went out to dinner with our friends Daniel, Amy, and their little guy, Ben.  Daniel, with great enthusiasm mentioned the race and then Amy chimed in, encouraging me to participate with our girlfriends.  Daniel was also trying to get a team of guys together to do it.  Noa was a shoe-in. In fact, we knew that our buddy Mike would be visiting during the weekend of the race and he would definitely like to be included in it.  So, the guys were in.  Since Amy promised to stay with me throughout the course, I decided to sign up.

Fast forward to this morning: I met up with my team at the course entrance.  There were a total of six girls on the team (as pictured, left to right): Mel, Lindsay, Candace, Courtney, me, and Amy.  Our team's name was "Girlz Just Want to Have Fun" and we wore matching hot pink tank tops, black bottoms and goggles.  This was a tame team look compared to the many tutus and viking hats I saw elsewhere on the course.

I was pretty anxious about running since it had been so long since I had done any kind of running or jogging even, but thankfully, our team stuck together and truthfully, the course wasn't just a straight run - there were lots of obstacles to conquer.  These included climbing over giant tires, wading through large mud puddles, monkey bars, slides, and rope ladders.  This really broke up all the running and made it really fun.  Plus, the running and the obstacles were mixed with MUD.  Crazy amounts of mud.  Huge puddles that had to be waded through and trenches that you'd sink in when you stepped in it.  There was no running through that, although it didn't stop us from swimming in it, laying in it, and sliding down it.

Frankly, it was awesome.  By the third obstacle, we were coated in mud. Throughout the course we cheered, joked, and flung mud at each other.  We were disappointed when one of the obstacles included getting sprayed with a hose, since it would wash off some of our well-earned mud.  I think we all swam in the next mud puddle after that just to get covered again. 

The very last part of the course involved a quick, sharp hill, followed by a giant mud pit.  Candace's husband, Todd, caught this picture of us going through it.  I'm on the left with my mouth wide open.  Amy and Courtney are right behind me and Lindsay, Candace, and Mel are right at the bottom of the hill.

We crossed the finish line covered from head to toe in mud, holding hands, and laughing.  I was so lucky to be part of such a fun, energetic team. 

I'm also so thankful that Amy had convinced me to participate. I never would have tried it if she hadn't sold me on the idea.

I think I'll have mud on me for the next week.  It was everywhere...I'm still trying to get it out of my fingernails.  The cold showers provided at the race did not get me clean (and they were freezing!), but really just rinsed off the excess.

The boys also got to join in on the fun.  They raced after us and also got into the spirit of the event.  All of them were smattered with mud by the end.  Here is their team at the course finish: Greg, Daniel, Mike, and Noa.

Mike and I have debated whether Noa looks like a brown version of a "Blue Man" or Swamp Thing.  It's still a toss up.

One of the things that the race organizers kept saying over the speakers was, "it's not a race, it's an experience" and I have to agree.  It was one awesome experience and I'm so glad we did it.

Firsts in the Bay Area

This past weekend, Ruby and I flew down to the Bay Area of California to visit Traci and Emilia (Herman was out of town) and attend our yearly shopping adventure at this year's Renegade Craft Fair.  Yes, we've been doing a lot of flying lately and no, I'm not an expert at flying with a baby.  In fact on the way down to California, Ruby refused to sleep on the plane, insisting instead to play with everything in sight.  Oh, and did I mention we were sitting in a middle seat?  Let's just say that I'm learning how to travel with her through trial by fire.

Anyway, back to my post....sorry for the tangent.

This particular visit to the Bay Area had a lot of firsts for Ruby.

It was her first time meeting Emilia.

The girls did great together.

It was her first time meeting her Aunt Traci.  Excuse the blurry iPhone photo.  Ruby had so much fun laughing at Traci's games and tricks.  Traci admitted to me that they were the same tricks she used for her cat.

Hey, whatever works, right?

It was her first time meeting Madisyn, who was born about a week after Ruby.  Jen, Madisyn's mom, is Traci's sister-in-law and my friend.  I met Jen several years ago on our trip to China.  Jen and I both shared the same due date, similar birthing experiences, and both had baby girls.  We've kept in touch throughout the journey of becoming moms and it was great to finally be able to get the girls (and us) in the same place.

We think both girls look like their dads.  

Trying to get a photo of the three girls looking at the camera was pretty much impossible.  Ruby was suddenly obsessed with that blue cube when we decided to take a photo of them.

 It was the first time Ruby got to dress up in costume.  We attended a friend's Star Wars-themed birthday party (it was an awesome party by the way).  All the kids got Jedi robes, even the babies.  Ruby's robe was a little big on her.

Ruby and Madisyn all dressed up!

Emilia, Jedi warrior!

It was Ruby's first time attending the Renegade Craft Fair.  Traci and I have made it a tradition to attend the San Francisco Renegade each year.  We now have a standing date every July.  Ruby did great, especially considering she was way off her usual nap and eating schedule.  Overall, she was a pleasant shopping buddy.

Here are some of the goods from this year's fair:

The girls were all smiles for the photo op!

It was her (and my) first time going up and then down Lombard Street.  The picture isn't great because I was tucked in the back seat with the kiddos, but you get the idea.

Finally, it was her first time meeting her grandpa.  Prior to this trip, we've only been able to Skype or FaceTime with Noa's dad, but I had a small window for us to meet up with him.  

I think they were enamored by each other.

It was such a fun, but much too short, trip.  We can't wait to go back.  We're not sure when that will be, but I know for sure that we'll be back next year for Renegade 2013!

*Special thanks to Traci for being so generous about sharing her stellar photos.  They put my iPhone pics to shame.

8 Months!

Today Ruby is officially 8 months old!  Each month I take her picture in a 12-month onesie laying on the quilt given to her by Oma.  Here she is this month and wow - that onesie is going to fit her soon!

Age: 8 months

Weight: almost 15 pounds (weighed at home)

Length: 26 3/4 inches

Sleep: sleeps in her crib, wakes 1 - 2 times a night; typically takes 2 - 3 naps each day, will soothe herself by sucking her thumb

Eating: breastfed with supplemental formula, 4 - 6 oz of solids a day, still eating infant cereal mixed with solids, likes the mum-mum crackers still, but isn't fond of any other baby cracker, tasted a lemon slice (wasn't a fan)

Appearance: blue eyes, light blond hair, wearing 3 - 6 month clothes, 2 bottom teeth

Ruby is on the go!  Although she's not officially crawling yet (although I think it will be very soon), she still gets around.  She scoots, rolls, and will even try climbing.  She can get into the crawling position, but then gets stuck on what to do next, so she either rocks back and forth or cries in frustration.  

I think she's close to getting more teeth, since she drools a lot and is biting everything, including me.  She puts all her toys in her mouth and will hold her own bottle when eating.  The one thing I haven't been able to get her to put in her mouth are the small baby crackers.  She'll play with them, but not put them in her mouth yet.  Once she shows an interest in those, I'll most likely begin feeding her small pieces of food.  For now, she is eating the purees and becoming a champion eater!  She used to be so messy and get food all over her face, hair, hands, tray, and even us, but now she'll open up her mouth like a little baby bird and keep most of the food in there.

Her hair has lightened up a lot and seems to get blonder by the day.  I refer to the hair on her head as a puff because it doesn't seem to lay flat.  It's extremely fine - I still can't keep a barrette in it, so I'm sticking with headbands for now.  Most days she goes without one though, since it makes an indent in her puffy hair and it looks kinda strange when she decides she's had it with the headband.

Some of the new, cute things Ruby has developed over this month:

- making "tiger" noises: we have no clue where she got this, but Ruby will now "roar."  We refer to her as our little tiger.

- the laugh/cough: no, she's not sick, but she'll throw in a little cough with her laugh.  It's weird and funny all at the same time.

- turned up the volume: Ruby can be loud, especially in public, by making loud laughs, coos, or shouts.  She's especially adept at this skill when we are in a restaurant.  It's always easy to find our table.

- army crawl: She's all arms down, scooting forward, and on a mission.

- helping get up: Ruby likes to help us get her out of her car seat, high chair, crib, or whatever, by leaning forward with her arms out.  It's pretty cute.

- grabbing the dog's ear: Gunnar does not appreciate it at all.  Thankfully, he runs away afterwards and has never shown any aggression towards her.  Love my submissive little boy.

We've been doing a fair amount of traveling lately, especially the Rubester and myself.  I have to admit that she's not the easiest baby on an airplane, but I don't blame her.  Oftentimes, she's simply tired and has no way to lie down like she is used to at home.  So, she'll fight sleep by arching her back and fussing.  I'm learning how to deal with this behavior on the plane and so far I've had very understanding travelers seated next to me, thank God.

Even with traveling issues, Ruby becomes more and more fun every day.  I am still in shock that she's already 8 months old.  I was warned that time flies by with a baby, so I should have known that this would happen, but it's still hard to see her grow so fast.  It's hard to hold on to all the infant moments while still being excited to see what she'll do next.  For now, I'm trying to catch as much as I can on camera so that I can remember all this special little moments.  

Oh, and of course, I have the blog.  :)

Happy 8 months, Ruby!