Well, it finally came...Ruby's first birthday. I'll admit, I was both excited and sad to see it come and go so quickly. It seems like so long ago that she was a tiny, little peanut. She could be placed on the bed without fear of her rolling off or getting into something she shouldn't. Months ago, I used to be able to put her in a bouncer while I got ready for work. Now I have to hurry and get ready while she's sleeping or stick her in a pack n' play for a few moments while I throw on some hurried makeup and clothes. She used to fall asleep in her swing at random times. Now, we follow a routine that involves strict nap times. At night, I used to have to get up four, five, even six times to nurse her and rock her back to sleep. Now, both Noa and I usually get a full night's sleep (yay!!). It has been a huge year of change for Ruby and for us. Some of these changes happened with much excitement, like when she started babbling "mama" and "dada." Others brought me to tears, like when I had to fold and put away her tiny newborn clothes. I still can't believe that I'm a mother to a toddler. Funny thing, I still feel as scared about parenting her as I did that first week I brought her home. It seems to be a learning process every day.
Ruby's monthly photos became quite a chore over the past few months. Once she began crawling and moving around, she wanted nothing to do with them. This month was no exception. It took much cajoling by me, Noa, and several of my family members to get her to stay still for a few fleeting moments and strike a smile. Here's the final result:
Age: 12 months
Weight: 17 pounds, 13 ounces
Length: 29 inches
Sleep: sleeps in her crib, 2 daytime naps, sleeps through the night (amen!)
Eating: began drinking whole milk instead of formula, finger foods, beginning to wean from using a bottle
Appearance: blue eyes, wearing 6 - 12 month clothes, 7 teeth and teething again (so more teeth to come soon!)
Skills: can sit, roll, pull to a stand, crawl, cruise, and beginning to start standing independently, expresses lots of baby babble, repeat "dada," "mama", and "ga" (her word for dog), has basic pincer grasp, grabs toys and passes from hand to hand, can "catch" a ball that is rolled to her, "dances" to music, responds to the dogs (will try to pet them and will "bark" when they do), gives good eye contact and smiles! She can also throw a mean tantrum, complete with arched back and wailing cry. Ruby is really fast with crawling and cruising. She began using push toys recently and loves to push her "babies" in her new wagon.
And, my oh my, how she's grown! Here'a look back at all her monthly photos over the past year:
Her birthday was last Friday and it was a low-key celebration at home with my family in town. We did open some presents that evening and Ruby seemed to love her new toys.
We did throw her a "small" party the next day. Noa laughed when he saw all the decorations I was putting up all over the house. Initially we planned on having a small, intimate celebration without much fanfare, but what Noa considered "small" and what I considered "small" were vastly different. Thankfully, he usually defers to my preferences on things like this. Here's the dining room:
Anoli hung the streamers. I loved them. I actually kept them up over the past week because I liked them so much. I had other banners throughout the house, like my new "Happy Birthday" banner that I ordered from Etsy. I'm excited to use this for many birthdays to come:
And her monthly photos on a banner:
More photos in the entryway and on the mantle. I had my dad put together the paper chain, which looked so fun and festive so it also stayed up all week.
The tv also played photos of Ruby throughout the year.
I couldn't have put this all together without the help of my family. It was also nice to have them around to play with Ruby while I ran around the house getting things ready for the event.
We had around 25 people at the house - adults and children mingled about while Ruby crawled everywhere, chased balloons, and played with the other kids.
Ruby has officially joined the kids table, although I had to help her out a bit. Our conversation focused on what out favorite colors were and which party hats we liked best. She obviously preferred the pink polka dotted one.
Ruby got to hang out with some of her favorite babysitters. They are really sweet with her, so I'm glad they could be there to celebrate with us.
We stripped her down for the cake, since she'd be getting her own. I had done a lot of online research about first birthday parties and I learned that the birthday boy/girl, when given their own cake, will decimate it - and most of it will end up ON him or her. So, I figured I'd save some of her clothes by keeping her in a diaper. We put her in her high chair, gathered the guests, and sang happy birthday. She pretty much watched while sucking her thumb - not sure how to respond.
Then we let her go at it.
She hesitantly touched the frosting. It didn't go anywhere near her mouth.
So, I'd thought I'd help her out and break the cupcake into pieces.
Still no dice. Not even a taste. So, I decided to help a little more by putting some frosting on her lips.
She did not like that idea.
So, the cake was a no-go, but those were the only tears of the day. And, really, is it so bad that she's not a huge fan of sugar. Guess I have a health nut on my hands.
The rest of the day was spent napping, playing, and spending time together. It was a wonderful party and although Ruby won't remember it, I'm glad we were able to host the event. Someday she'll be able to look back at the pictures. I hope that she'll always know how much she is loved and will continue to be loved as she grows.
Happy birthday, Ruby! We love you!





































